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I have had a childShe does not live with me nor have I seen her in person since a few days after her birth. While I do wonder about her often and almost was in touch with her last year, I know in my heart that her life has been massively better that I could have ever given
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You made the best decision that you could at the time. You wanted to give that little girl the best possible life she could have and you knew that you couldn't give her that.
Adoption can be such a beautiful thing. There's nothing wrong with it.
Unlike some girl that was in my life (I have an acquaintance that knows the people that adopted her daughter), but the girl said that she never put a daughter up for adoption, kept denying, and then made it obvious that it was true by insisting that I was accessing private legal documents. She insisted that over and over even though I didn't say anything about it. The girl is even the one that brought the adoption up in the first place.
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I've also offered to be a surrogate for several people but no one has ever taken me up on it and I'm pretty much past those days now.
I think adoption is a wonderful thing and I was glad to be able to take part in one.
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I kind of felt that the baby convinced me it was what she needed so I felt like I was following her lead.
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Good entry! As I've said before, I'm sorry you had to go through it, but also I'm not, since you regard it positively as well.
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However, I've always been a big supporter of adoption & somehow felt that I would be involved in one someday (either giving or receiving a baby).
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