I tried to do a different thing, but I couldn’t do the thing I wanted to do that was different from the thing I did, so I did the thing instead. Then I did the other thing, too, so...things got done.

It started yesterday morning, when I woke intending to post a new episode of the Skeptical Pervert podcast, this one looking at sex work in different ( Read more... )

I’ve done it! They said I was mad, but I’ve done it! After almost three years of work and countless redesigns, I present to you:

The Xenomorph Hiphugger Strapon!


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Friends, I urgently need your help. A former partner is currently trying to claim my trademark, and take the domain “More Than Two.”

For more than sixteen years, I have worked to make my site a resource for relationship ideas and advice. Now the site is under threat. Someone I was once romantically involved with is attempting to claim the ( Read more... )

As many folks who read me probably know by now (and goodness, I'm doing my job wrong if you don't!), I'm polyamorous. I've been polyamorous my entire life, I've been writing a Web site about polyamory since the 1990s, and I recently co-wrote a book on the subject ( Read more... )

A little while ago, I wrote a blog post called Some Thoughts on Rape CultureEvery time I write a blog post like this, as sure as night follows day, the same thing happens. Invariably, I will get at least one, and sometimes several, private emails in my inbox. The content of these emails is always the same, and they're rarely stated in the blog ( Read more... )

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As the American electorate went through the motions of choosing a candidate of someone else's choosing this week, the Internetverse was alive with political commentary, flames, racial epithets, and all the other things that normally accompany an American campaign season ( Read more... )

Windows 7 is the best version of Windows I've ever used, and I've used literally every version of Windows since Windows 3.0 ( Read more... )

Edit: 12:04 PM Pacific time Apparently, the problem has been resolved. Non-LiveJournal users can now see the blog post and its comments.

Last night, I posted a rather lengthy essay about misogyny and bias in the skeptics and freethought community. This morning, I woke to discover that at some point during the night, LiveJournal had for some reason ( Read more... )

So, as many of you readers of this blog already know, one of the many things I do is write erotica. The most popular thing I've ever written by far is a BDSM/non-con story, the Training of Eileen series, which concerns a woman who's trained as a sex slave by her partner.

Now, of course, it gets a lot of emails. So many, in fact, that I detailed ( Read more... )