an essay about relationships

[sweetdisaster]

Lately I have been thinking a lot about love, sex, and relationships. In the beginning of June, I left a relationship of almost four years and have been changed ever since. The breakup was painful, yet by the time it was over it was more of a relief and a breath of fresh air. After mourning the death of my relationship months before it was ended, I

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[sixboxesaday]

hi pretty. i haven't talked to you in a long time. but i just got out of a relationship too. it wasn't exactly a four year relationship, but it was a year and half, which honestly felt like forever. it's good to hear someone speaking so sanely about the situation, because for the first week or so i thought i was going to be miserable for the rest of my life. it's slowly getting better (it's only been about 4 weeks), but i can already feel some sort of change in my mindset too. i always thought i was a relationship person, but now... i don't know. the thought of a new relationship hasn't even crossed my mind. i don't know. it's just nice to hear a realistic perspective instead of constantly hearing that it will hurt for a long time before it gets better.

[apppalled]

yeah, i'd say not to fret about any relationship thing, but who the hell am i kidding? I am sure that most if not all stress about something similar to this. I am sure some don't and lucky them I guess. It's a shame that life isnt easier, but then where would the fun be if it was easy?