My issue is that if you wait too long and DON'T get the kid-type "dating" out of the way (holding hands at recess etc.) then you will be left at age 20, wanting a long-term relationship, and being totally fucking clueless about it because your relationship maturity is that of a pre-teen. It just, it bugs me that there are so many people in their twenties and hell, even thirties who have NO IDEA how to date, no idea how the dating process works, no idea how to court or flirt or anything, and even if they want to, they just don't because they never got that early experience. I think if everyone just started early then it would be less difficult later in life. Entering the dating world is what's hardest, and once you've got that out of the way it's significantly less difficult...the knowledge base of relationships expands
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I don't feel like you're attacking me! You know what, I was thinking about it this morning from a less angry viewpoint and a more rational viewpoint, and I guess what I'm feeling is that I have to be more aggressive about my values. It's the same thing as I made a post about a while ago, how it's okay to be a tomboy, at the sacrifice of the feminine woman being painted in a negative light. I feel like the promotion of starting a family later in life makes it unacceptable to start earlier. So I feel like I have to be more aggressive to promote what I think is right...is this making any sense
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...During all of high school, I had this huuuge problem of not being able to be attracted to any of the guys around me. At all. .____. I wonder if it's a hormonal problem? Or maybe I was just too picky with attraction? Then again, half the guys in high school were douchebags... XD;;;; <-hey.
When I finally started to find guys actually attractive, I was already in first year of university. :\
Sometimes, I chalk it up to me being bisexual- I had no problems being attracted to girls, even from since elementary school(...). But I didn't even realize that I was bi until I was 16. ._. And even then, I was only attracted to girls physically- Their personalities were something that I couldn't see myself being compatible with. >.>
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When I finally started to find guys actually attractive, I was already in first year of university. :\
Sometimes, I chalk it up to me being bisexual- I had no problems being attracted to girls, even from since elementary school(...). But I didn't even realize that I was bi until I was 16. ._. And even then, I was only attracted to girls physically- Their personalities were something that I couldn't see myself being compatible with. >.>
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