No Promises

[squeakywheel]

In regards to all the comments on yesterday’s post, I now feel like I finally, finally understand the point that so many of you have been trying to make for…years now? And last night, I was thinking I would break up with Chris and have some alone time, but I decided not to be hasty and at least sleep on it

Comments

[letmeburyem]

I am glad you heard us. The hard part is going to be reminding yourself of it regularly. I suppose it's not much different from reminding yourself not to snack or overindulge, etc. All you want is something greasy and yummy, but you remind yourself of your ultimate goal, and how a meal will make you feel better temporarily, but won't help reach your ultimate goal.

Likewise, there may be moments of wanting to cave in to your feelings for David or Chris...and you'll have to remind yourself of your worth. I'm sure you really do still love Chris...but remind yourself that he really wants to sleep with women other than you.

...or maybe I'm projecting a bit here:-)

And hey, we're already proud of you.

[clight]

Wow for 61.5 pounds down!!!! Congrats!

That was a lot of exclamation points, but that deserves it :)

[prophetess666]

I will be the first to admit that I simply cannot argue with your statement "I feel like I’m floating on a cloud"...or rather, I would be a hypocrite if I told you this was a bad thing. I'm that way with Allen. I forget about the rest of the world and problems I have. I don't think he and David are similar in other ways, but for this one thing I feel like I can't tell you to stop.

On the other hand, I really really want you to be happy Kate. And I want you to find long term happiness. I support whatever takes you to that path, and I really really hope the rest of that journey is better.

*hugs*