It bothers me a lot that I am so often not seen for my value. I'm seen and judged upon my fat gut, or my double chin, or my lack of athletic ability (which is more of a judgment than a fact). Most people never see the deep, loving heart. They see a fat face or a hypersensitive, high maintenance girl instead of a serious, sensitive, passionate woman
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I love deeply and passionatly with no expectation of dating - the person I have loved the deepest since moving out here is Tyler - he is 17 and therefore not even on my datable radar. This isn't about rushing into relationships - it's about being rejected in friendships.
That being said - I appreciate your willingness to read and comment. That alone helps. :)
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You said "i love deeply and passionately with no expectation of dating." That raises a red flag. Its easy to miscommunicate our intentions. There is Christ's calling to love our neighbor, but if you can easily defend how your deep and passionate love for these guy friends is different from how it would be in a relationship, i won't argue against it. However, time invested and certain signals can be understood as intention for more. Being aware of this and avoiding mixed signals and attachment to guy friends is going to help prevent being rejected in a friendship. I feel its all connected, sorry if i don't explain it well. Perhaps defining what actions will constitute friendship or relationship, or in a gray area of both, it would help you to grow and me to understand, heh.
At any rate, i want to see you well and i hate to see you hurting. And you are welcome. Stay in touch
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