I didnt want to get married or have babies, until I turned 30..then something weird happened, and my view on that shit changed...I thought I wanted to be single and no kids..never get married in my 20s, but its strange, I look at kids now and want one of my own... One of my friends just recently got married and he was totally against getting married, he didnt believe in th einstitution...but time changed his mind..
My relationship with Jesse (my husband) was drastically different (in good ways) than any other relationship I'd had. I guess that was how I knew. I had also dealt with living with several guys and then breaking up and I didn't want to do that again. Not that getting married magically keeps you together forever (hah).
In life, you gotta have a plan and you gotta have a project. Big or small, easy or hard. Do you trust this guy to invest in your plans with you? Does he want to share in your projects?
As far as the kids thing, I love my niece and nephew and my pal's kids, but that just isn't the lifestyle I want. I don't judge anyone else, and on the same turn, they better not judge me. I have totally lost friends to the BABY MAFIA and it sucks.
I feel like I'm at a point in my life where I need to take on new challenges, but nothing seems to be presenting itself and otherwise I just don't know where to begin
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I think a lot of people feel the way that you do, and it accounts for some trends: crazy elaborate wedding planning, crazy elaborate home reno/decor/design. Everyone wants something to do, something to feel fulfilled by. I know this probably offends some people, but I think that is why a lot of people choose to have kids. You go to school, get a job, get your life together...and....Then people start to wonder what is next
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Sorry about any spelling errors - long day at work.
Thank you for the comment about my wedding. From the little bits of information I know about you, I think you are really smart and unique and driven. I hope we can meet someday or travel together or cook up something else!
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One of my friends just recently got married and he was totally against getting married, he didnt believe in th einstitution...but time changed his mind..
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In life, you gotta have a plan and you gotta have a project. Big or small, easy or hard. Do you trust this guy to invest in your plans with you? Does he want to share in your projects?
As far as the kids thing, I love my niece and nephew and my pal's kids, but that just isn't the lifestyle I want. I don't judge anyone else, and on the same turn, they better not judge me. I have totally lost friends to the BABY MAFIA and it sucks.
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Thank you for the comment about my wedding. From the little bits of information I know about you, I think you are really smart and unique and driven. I hope we can meet someday or travel together or cook up something else!
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