Being the Bigger Person

[rinnytintinny]

For a long time this has bothered me. Really bothered me. If being the bigger person gets you ahead then why haven't I seen any improvement? Right, I know, I can't control everyone but it's exhausting being so nice to someone who treats you like an enemy, who's always defensive against you, always competitive, when you're not trying to compete

Comments

[zodidj]

hug

It is not too much to ask for.

[jasonecaesar]

That person should be being civil, at the very least. *hug*

[nixxfey]

There are many times when I have had to act the "bigger person" and it hasn't improved the situation at all