Comments | rebekah1213: Pondering Thoughts: The greatest question: Why?

rebekah1213

Pondering Thoughts: The greatest question: Why?

Dec 07, 2009 15:55

I have been thinking a lot lately . . . and I have questions

Why is it when I want to take a bath or type my story, I always get instantly tired? What is exactly holding me back?
Why is it every winter I feel like crap?
Why is it when I watch the snow I only feel sad and isolated?
Why can't I just be excited about my birthday (13th) and the ( Read more... )

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Comments 8

sillyliss December 7 2009, 20:59:35 UTC

I'll just take a stab at #6 and say that you are probably giving off a really confident vibe and men pick it up.

As for #5, I think you have been through a lot recently.

Just be...that is good advice.

rebekah1213 December 7 2009, 21:07:31 UTC

Thanks, I didn't think I would get a response so soon.

Why don't have a good vibe when I am single? (Is there a lonely desperation that hides it?)

sillyliss December 7 2009, 21:10:04 UTC

I really don't know that you don't exude confidence when you're single, but I bet you have even more of it when you're in a good relationship and therefore a happy place. Also, I think sometimes when people know you're in a relationship, they feel freer to act more flirtatious sometimes? Eh, what do I know? Not much! :P

rebekah1213 December 8 2009, 05:53:27 UTC

I love your Icons, they are so kute.

Eh, what do I know? Not much! :P

Don't sell yourself short. You know more than you know. I can say the same thing for myself.

the_genuine_guy December 8 2009, 20:59:45 UTC

Hmm..sometimes i think its best not to think so much .I would say all those whys are linked to each other hun.I mean they are all part of the one problem i think.Like for instance were u ask "why am i so hard on myself" and "why do i feel their is something wrong" .They are linked as i think they all are.I know personally if i started analysing myself i would go mad .So i just get on with my life and dont try to to complicate things.I know that all sounds complicated but its the only way i can look at it.

rebekah1213 December 12 2009, 14:34:10 UTC

I live for analyzing things, especially myself and I look at it this way. . . it's cheaper than a shrink who will ask me "What do I think?" And my reply would be "I think I am paying you a 150 dollars a hour, but not to ask me what I think? I think I could do your job with less schooling and for a cheaper rate if I could ask 'What do you think?' all day."

There is a reason why I said "Screw it all and just be!" Because I have to listen to the little piece of personal sanity I have left and screw it all and just enjoy life for what it is truly worth.

mountainheather December 14 2009, 05:17:18 UTC

'Just be' is what I keep coming back to time and time again when I try to 'define' myself. I think sometimes it's possible to dive so deep that you lose yourself. 'Just be' is actually so hard to do.

rebekah1213 December 14 2009, 07:56:19 UTC

I have to agree that I can't just be. . . I always want to be so much more than "just be." I am always so hard on myself and I have these huge/high expectations.

By the way, I love your user pics.