So sometimes the internal monologue responds like this:
OTHER PERSON: You're so pretty!
ME: Thanks! internally: It's all just makeup and angles. It's fake.
OTHER PERSON: You're so smart!
ME: Thanks! internally: It's all just surface material I get skimming headlines. It's fake.
OTHER PERSON: You're so compassionate!
ME: Thanks! internally: I
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Just a note about it: Even the (supposedly) strong have that from time to time. ... ...
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Dude then you would be really really good at manipulation. But I don't think you are manipulating anyone (any more than the normal person does).
But if I AM clear........what if they tell me truth?What truth is it that you want to know ( ... )
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That's a very human trait, to have imposter syndrome about being a human with value.
So when I was in IOP after my suicide attempt (you missed a lot :D) they pointed out that I was basically verbally abusing myself. I was essentially living with a person in my head who immediately belittled and dismissed any good thing people said about me, or that I might have thought about myself, and coldly, ruthlessly berated me about my perceived shortcomings all day instead. If someone else were doing that to me, everyone would be horrified, because that person would clearly be being toxic and abusive. If a partner ever treated me that way I would immediately start working to get myself out of that relationship (it can take me awhile, but I'd be working on it.) But ( ... )
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