You know what? I don't think there's really such a thing as needing "too much" attention or not needing "enough". Unless it's extremely excessive, what you need is what you need, and that's it. Everybody needs a different level of attention in a relationship.
If you know that the person you want to be with needs less, then it's easier to compromise without feeling like it's a personal insult.
Oooorrr, if you're not serious about someone, there are always guys out there who need about the same amount of attention as you do. Then nobody feels unsatisfied either way :)
well then that would be a problem, i suppose. but you wouldn't be the first to have that reaction to being in love, if that makes you feel any better...? i doubt it. i'll stop now, hahaha.
i'm good. workin', chillin'. i'm about to dye my hair pink. i think everyone thinks i'm crazy, heh.
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If you know that the person you want to be with needs less, then it's easier to compromise without feeling like it's a personal insult.
Oooorrr, if you're not serious about someone, there are always guys out there who need about the same amount of attention as you do. Then nobody feels unsatisfied either way :)
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you are so effin smart missy!
but my thing is that i believe i force myself to be unhappy no matter what.
if i am getting a lot of attention it is too much and if i am not getting as much i am being ignored.
this is just a theory though.
really i believe that i don't do well when i am in love because i feel as if any moment everything will be ripped away from me.
how are you? haha.
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but you wouldn't be the first to have that reaction to being in love, if that makes you feel any better...?
i doubt it. i'll stop now, hahaha.
i'm good. workin', chillin'.
i'm about to dye my hair pink. i think everyone thinks i'm crazy, heh.
what have you been up to?
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no pink hair dye though. i dyed my hair darker...
i am buying a motorcycle helmet soon!
one step closer to owning a bike...riding on the back of one!
yay for boyfriends with motorcycles!
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