Oh Hai Thar Cross, I Will Be Your Bearer This Eve

[pdragon76]

So I've been kinda sorta half-seeing this guy Deaks* for the last month or so. Fly in/fly out mechanic, smart, funny, sweet, attentive, and more importantly -- he's not bugfuck insane paranoid. Which is a refreshing change for me this year. I actually like this guy.

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[erinrua]

Okay, now listen up. You've already got good advice on the relationship end, so I won't go there. You don't wanna hear from some chick who's been with the same guy for like 23 years. ;)

But. Normal? Sister, who the hell says drinking people are more normal than non-drinkers? The same people who say "normal" is some chick in Size 1 jeans? (Seriously, they have size 1 over here, and I don't even know what that is!) Who are "they," anyhow? I say "they" can kiss my slightly dimpled ass.

You. Are beautiful. You are awesome! You are empowered because you don't have to drink, ever, ever again. You are free of the need to drink, free of the ridiculous social obligation to drink, to spend too much money and act like three legged rhinoceros amongst other three-legged rhinoceroses. Rhinoceri?

You get to create your own normal, and if Dick Deak can't handle your kind of normal, if a chick who owns herself and her future and bows to nobody's idea of normal is scary ... dude. If he can't deal, it's as well you let him sail off into the sunset

[pdragon76]

You are free of the need to drink, free of the ridiculous social obligation to drink, to spend too much money and act like three legged rhinoceros amongst other three-legged rhinoceroses.

Facts are these all. Thank you for the pom-poms and the reminder. They are more appreciated than you guys will ever know. Srsly.

*hugs you liek woah*

And I gave Deaks the flick this morning. Hard, and unpleasant, but had to be done. We'll see what happens with FIS. Treading very carefully on that front, because I adore him way too much to lose him out of my life over a quick shag.

[erinrua]

*hugs Dragons* Sometimes taking care of you is tough. I wish you blessings and safe passage on your road ahead. :) FIS sounds like a pretty amazing guy.

Also, thanks for not reducing me to little smoldering pile of hobbit ashes, for being so ... vociferous in my pep-talking! ;)

[starrylizard]

If Deaks can't live without drinking when you're around, he probably isn't the right guy. Course that's just my take.

Just, you'd think he'd proud of you winning that particular battle. I'm proud and I barely know you. *have a hug*

[pdragon76]

Thank you, baby! I broke up with him this morning.

I need people in my life who don't think the drinking thingamy is a big deal.

Thank you for being one of them. :)