deryck has literally no incentive to voluntarily make this sort of thing public beyond a deep need for personal healing. there's nothing else for him to gain. and when you consider that, it is SO absurd when the abuser tries to deny shit.
That's always the abuser's defence - that their teenage victim was sexually aggressive and came up with the whole idea. Never mind that you're twice their damn age and in a position of clear authority, you were just along for the ride while the minor masterminded the whole thing. (I know Deryck says the sexual stuff didn't start until 18, but the grooming and coercive control was clearly there from the get)
I'm glad Deryck's subsequent partners have validated his experience and been supportive
The age of consent in Canada at the time was 14. It's only 16 now. Grieg probably thinks he's a great guy for 'waiting' until Deryck was 18 to pounce, but he really put in A LOT of grooming work before that.
fuck this is so upsetting, i believe deryck 100% :(
this further solidifies my belief that minors should not be part of the entertainment industry. there are too many predators and fame does something to you when you’re that young, imo. like i just want to protect every child/teen at all costs!
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I'm glad Deryck's subsequent partners have validated his experience and been supportive
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The age of consent in Canada at the time was 14. It's only 16 now. Grieg probably thinks he's a great guy for 'waiting' until Deryck was 18 to pounce, but he really put in A LOT of grooming work before that.
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this further solidifies my belief that minors should not be part of the entertainment industry. there are too many predators and fame does something to you when you’re that young, imo. like i just want to protect every child/teen at all costs!
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I feel for Deryck and wish him well on his healing journey.
Good on Avril and Ariana for recognizing it for what it was!
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