Doja Cat's brother served a restraining order by their mom for abuse

[britneyspears]

Doja Cat’s Brother Served With Legal Papers Amid Allegations of Abuse https://t.co/NRsC25X9GM
- The Source Magazine (@TheSource) January 31, 2024

Comments

[anterrabre]

No disrespect to the OP but this is intense and maybe not the public's business? I hate how stuff like this is public record because it's horrible.

[britneyspears]

it’s definitely awful but i felt it was important to share bc we’re always dragging her to high heaven with very little sympathy

obviously nothing excuses her platforming of an alleged neo-Nazi and she needs to seek help for her desperation for Internet validity. but having this context made me understand what may have helped shape her into the person we see

[djbbgoose]

No I agree, Ive always felt like that edgelord thing was masking a lot of trauma gone unaddressed especially after that her father had never bothered to meet her after leaving as a toddler but was chiming from South Africa about how proud he is after she got famous

But we’re seeing with Nicki that mental illness isnt an excuse for all bad behavior. Reason =\= excuse. Doja has the money and resources to seek help and be better and I hope she does

[jemgirl90]

Doja has the money and resources to seek help/i>

Having enough money will not guarantee you will get the Right help. A lot of these stars get Drs that are enablers and getting the right therapist as a minority can be very hard even with money. I remember when Wendy Williams went to one and she said the therapist could not get over how she came from a upper middle class 2 parent home. Racism in all areas of medicine is so high.

Doja has ADHD and it is not an excuse to point out what she is doing due to her illness.If a person can just stop, Then stop drinking, lose/ gain weight and never get into an abusive relationship.

self-medicating with argument refers to the stimulation some folks with ADHD get by provoking a conflict-consciously or not. It can spell disaster for your life and relationships.why do some people with ADHD self-medicate with argument? Case by case, we can only speculate. One thing’s for sure overall: Getting angry and arguing can release adrenaline-and thus calming focus./b

[melispurple]

What a piece of shit.

[ahkna]

We don't pay enough attention to the fact that one of the largest groups of perpetrators of male violence against women are sons and brothers.

[flyevita]

exactly this. domestic violence and abuse isn't just between partners.

[goodbye22]

Oh yeah I had that experience with my brother. It was traumatising for me tbh. I don't think I can ever trust him again.

[nigelwitthebrie]

Yep…one of my clients is a former Mormon who escaped from sibling abuse and incest. She told me that religion and the misogyny taught through society and religion is the biggest culprit for letting men and brothers abuse their female family members the most.

[forrealdoh]

Why do we need to know about this?

[eva_hagberg]

Because it points out prevalence of DV?
But maybe your question was:"How come we are privy to that?", and that's a very different question.

[genbu_no_miko24]

How sad and horrible. I had heard about a few days ago. I hope her and her mom find healing :(