Big Sean Says He Never Would’ve Made ‘IDFWU’ If He Knew Ex Naya Rivera Would Die So Tragically

[stewie_e]

Big Sean Says He Never Would've Made 'IDFWU' If He Knew Ex Naya Rivera Would Die So Tragically​ https://t.co/2bUiQiBOYp
- People (@people) September 2, 2020
In a new interview with New York Magazine, Big Sean, 32, said he would have “never made” the track “I Don’t Fuck With You” had he known ex-fiancée Naya Rivera’s life would come to such a tragic

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[crowdedstreets]

I mean.... Yeah that's sort of the basis of all human cruelty. I'd probably think twice if I thought the person would die tragically in the near future.

But. Humans are shortsighted. So.

[distant_lines]

Someone shouldn't have to die a tragic death for you to not be an asshole before they die.

[mayjailer]

this. i feel the same way about all of the people saying, "be kind, because you never know what's someone's going through!" in the wake of chadwick's death. it shouldn't take the possibility of someone secretly dying from a terminal illness or experiencing some other trauma for you to be kind to them.

[insomniachobs]

I feel the same, it's up there with "what if it was your mother/sister/daughter" when it comes to mistreating women. You shouldn't need a sob story or a personal connection to realise you shouldn't treat another human being like shit.

(I know it's well-meant, and I'd rather somebody smartened up their act because of that than that they didn't at all, but still)

[musicnkisses]

I mean, it’s a bop and everything but you shouldn’t have made it. Anybody could die tragically.

Making Amends

[analievelyn]

I'm not talking about situations where abuse existed, just general drifting apart or not being as communicative as you should w/ the solid ppl in your life.

But has covid made yall more expressive abt your feelings to loved ones?

I am throwing Ilu into almost all my convos lol. just peppering it in when I feel compelled.

Re: Making Amends

[analievelyn]

lol! I ask so many questions smh

Yeah, if I love you, you know it!! there are two ppl rn that I want to say ilu for the 1st time, but im waiting for the appropriate time. Probably in the next week or two..

I've met so many cuties from this site that I talk to in other spaces. Even if this place shuts down, im thankful for the friendships I made lol

Re: Making Amends

[geneforrester]

covid hadn't but a few years ago (2016 i believe it was) i realized i was really shit at telling people i loved + cared about them and i didnt want it to be that way and so i made it my resolution that year to be more openly grateful verbally to people and situations in my life. and i've just carried that energy from then until now - if i think about someone i immediately let them know, or try to every once in a blue moon write nice letters for my close friends to tell them how much i care and appreciate them and say i love you very unabashedly and often. it's crazy that i only started doing that a few years ago but it's one of the things i've done that i truly think has ushered in a stark positive change in my life and improved a lot of my friendships bc we understand how important we love + care for each other even when we're upset with each other it can make those arguments a lot easier to work thru bc we know it's worth it and we do want what's best for each other even if we go about that differently

[waxandstrings]

i think people are more upset about him saying she liked it, which is out of context, because in her book, she says she liked what she'd heard of it while they were together, but after they broke up, she begged him not to make it about her/an ex and he promised he wouldn't, and then he did