Big Sean Says He Never Would’ve Made ‘IDFWU’ If He Knew Ex Naya Rivera Would Die So Tragically

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Big Sean Says He Never Would've Made 'IDFWU' If He Knew Ex Naya Rivera Would Die So Tragically​ https://t.co/2bUiQiBOYp
- People (@people) September 2, 2020
In a new interview with New York Magazine, Big Sean, 32, said he would have “never made” the track “I Don’t Fuck With You” had he known ex-fiancée Naya Rivera’s life would come to such a tragic

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Making Amends

[analievelyn]

I'm not talking about situations where abuse existed, just general drifting apart or not being as communicative as you should w/ the solid ppl in your life.

But has covid made yall more expressive abt your feelings to loved ones?

I am throwing Ilu into almost all my convos lol. just peppering it in when I feel compelled.

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[analievelyn]

lol! I ask so many questions smh

Yeah, if I love you, you know it!! there are two ppl rn that I want to say ilu for the 1st time, but im waiting for the appropriate time. Probably in the next week or two..

I've met so many cuties from this site that I talk to in other spaces. Even if this place shuts down, im thankful for the friendships I made lol

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[geneforrester]

covid hadn't but a few years ago (2016 i believe it was) i realized i was really shit at telling people i loved + cared about them and i didnt want it to be that way and so i made it my resolution that year to be more openly grateful verbally to people and situations in my life. and i've just carried that energy from then until now - if i think about someone i immediately let them know, or try to every once in a blue moon write nice letters for my close friends to tell them how much i care and appreciate them and say i love you very unabashedly and often. it's crazy that i only started doing that a few years ago but it's one of the things i've done that i truly think has ushered in a stark positive change in my life and improved a lot of my friendships bc we understand how important we love + care for each other even when we're upset with each other it can make those arguments a lot easier to work thru bc we know it's worth it and we do want what's best for each other even if we go about that differently

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[they_marry]

This was really nice to read. How did you start doing this? Sometimes I can see myself being a really shitty friend, especially after losing a lot of important family members this year. I'm also not very good with expressing my feelings unless it's anger.

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[geneforrester]

i know im like a week late replying to this but tips on ushering in gratitude and love in your life i think are always warranted! so i hope my delay is okay

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[whereisglory]

I don't think it's changed me at all but it possibly because of my anxiety and secondary depression I'm always feeling like we're one catastrophe away from extinction. So I'm used to feeling like we're gonna die any minute. So, this plague is like Tuesday for me. Oh, everything's a mess and we're all gonna die, what's new?

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[boltonlove]

I feel like I tell people how I feel about them a lot. It’s definitely put into perspectives what experiences I want to have before I die. Something as simple as deciding if I wanna decorate for Halloween is something I ask myself if I’m okay with missing.. like, if this was my last Halloween am I okay with skipping decorating?

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[analievelyn]

ooh this is great <3 something for me to think abt.

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[nutellawhore]

nah Covid actually make me "lose" a few ppl, especially ones who didn't respect the quarentine so I'm good. My number of close friends get smaller and smaller each year

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[analievelyn]

def! but with the ppl you love are you good with letting them know?

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[nutellawhore]

yes but I'm a hot blooded latina, never had any issues with affect and stuff like that lol

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[futrefilmdirctr]

The pandemic has made me so sad and so angry and I’ve alienated all of my friends and family.

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[tadpool]

I have a hard time saying "I love you" and COVID hasn't changed that unfortunately. I did cry on the phone with my mom while discussing COVID (basically the stupidity and evil idiocy of america) when I haven't cried in front of her (even over the phone) in two years so I guess maybe I'm expressing my feelings a /tiny/ bit more.

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[they_marry]

At the beginning of COVID(March/April), I would make extra food and drop it off with my parents. But that's about it.

I'm becoming really irritated with some friends who have used this time to test friendships ("You haven't checked in on me"). I've distanced myself from those friends, as I've had 3 deaths this year and have just needed some time to process everything and my own feelings.

In terms of making amends with people - nah. A pandemic doesn't erase a history of being a shitty person.

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[modern_toilet]

My immediate family doesn't say I love you. Have never done it. I can't bring myself to start because it would be so awkward.