Sigh, I don't like feeling lonely

[ohka15]

I have joined various dating sites or other profile sites trying to see what my options are in online dating. I always have been told that trying to find a serious relationship in a bar or club is not a good idea. Everything I hear is that they are usually full of just one night stands or short flings. It has been about a month now, still nothing

Comments

[yummyyumi]

What about actively pursuing a relationship? From what I read, you make it seem like you are passively waiting for someone to take the initiative to contact you. What about the other way? (As in you contacting other people to initiate a converstation)

[ohka15]

I have been trying to initiate the contact with people online. I keep observant of pursuing possible relationships with people who seem open or available. I have sent a decent amount of messages to people on these dating sites and the transhouston site to see if anyone will respond, show any interest, or start a conversation. Only got one real response from all of those messages sent that quickly died off with no more communication from them (but maybe that one was for the best).

When I went to the Trans socials, I was trying to be observant of people there who were not dating anyone and who were open to someone like me. Sadly, seems like my options are limited or non-existent there because all of them were either interested in men or already seeing someone that I recall.