In Which Family Matters. Or Not.

[nyssa23]

Just found this little turd in my e-mail box from my stepmother-in-law

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[kcobweb]

OMG. That's horrible. You're not asking them to come because you want them to be Jewish (or, horror of horrors, stepping foot in that place will somehow turn them) - you're asking them to come for *you*. I'm so sorry that they don't see that.

I think it's wonderful that you're doing this - it takes so much dedication and commitment. I wish I were anywhere nearby - I'd come and be your honorary family.

[nyssa23]

Thank you! That really means a lot to me; I've been lucky enough to snag some terrific honorary family members over the years. *hugs*

[girllikething]

this makes me angry!!! just because her beliefs are different doesnt mean she cant support you!!! ugh my family is mixed religiously and we always support each other. thats what family does.

dont let her ruin your day sweetie!!! *hugs!!* i know ill be thinking of you!!!

[nyssa23]

I'll be thinking of you too! ^_^

I went to the beach and talked to some friends about it so I feel a little better now. Thank you! *hugs* It means a lot to me that my friends all support me in this too.

[kassrachel]

Oh, honey, I'm so sorry they're being like this. The problem is theirs, not yours; this is their stuff, and in the end they're the ones who are going to miss out. But I recognize that that may not be especially comforting in this moment.

I wish I could be at your bat mitzvah, and I can't wait to hear all about it. Kol hakavod (all the honor) to you for doing this -- I am so, so proud and impressed and awed.

[nyssa23]

I know you're right, but it still sucks. I think I lost a lot of respect for her and Eric's dad today. And I'll still have to see them at Hunter's birthday party the following week--that is, unless there will be too many Jews there for their comfort. >_<

Thanks for your kind words; love as always.

[unrealfred]

The problem is absolutely theirs, and it's sad they can't look past different beliefs to stand by and support you on such an important day. I agree with what everyone else has been saying: don't let it ruin the day for you. :)

[nyssa23]

Thanks! *hugs* Looking forward to seeing you in September. :)

[nyssa23]

I know, right? It's like they JUST heard I was Jewish. I guess they're afraid of getting their souls all dirty or something. Grr.

Yay Jew candle! ^_^ Thanks for the support! I'll be thinking of you too. *hugs*