*hugs* I'm sorry I haven't been here for you when you needed someone. I'm looking for you on AIM, but it looks like you're off having your dark chocolate. I hope so. You need whatever will make you happy. I love you, and I know you're a wonderful, exciting, talented, brilliant person--even when you're feeling irritable and peevish and needy. I wish I knew some better way of telling you that. I wish I could be as good a friend for you as you've been for me.
Have your chocolate, and get some rest, and try spending some time doing nothing in the sunshine. I love you. You're worth it.
dark chocolate...
anonymous
March 19 2007, 04:09:33 UTC
Cut yourself some slack sweetheart!!
Lets see you have recently lost two rats, had a nasty cut to deal with, Japanses class isnt going well, and you started the IV treatments again. The universe has been doing some dumping lately and you need to tell the universe to piss off for a while.
The IV treatements are sucky but you were much better with those lung infections, remember? Wolfwood can come on down here and we will send him on his way properly if that will help. And given your victory on that big Japanese exam at xmas, you have permission to slack for semester. you do know that dont you?
So drink that dark chocolate, grump about for a bit, and find something fun to do. Spring equinox is Tuesday - do a rain dance for the helluva it!
Jack up the heat good and high and have that hotsprings in your tub. ^^ Play slow, calming music on a radio outside the bathroom and leave your door open to listen, or bring a radio in, or use your iPod.
Talk a walk when you're feeling up for it - something slow and ambling, maybe going down some roads you haven't been down before and have always told yourself, 'I want to check this out.' Or take a long drive and do the same thing. Explore and indulge yourself!
Also, if there's a type of cleaning you like - kind of an oxymoron there, XD - sometimes cleaning can help get a person out of the dumps. When your kitchen is always a mess, and the dishes always need doing, sometimes you feel better getting that cleaned up, you know? You'll be tired aftwards, but you'll have a clean kitchen you can mess up again. ^^
And then there's chocolate, or alcohol, or chocolate AND alcohol. :D :D The world is full of good things to make us happy! We just need to relax and find them sometimes. <3
Sorry I whined to you on Saturday morning, I feel like this is partly my fault. orz I hope you're feeling better by the time I read this and write a reply. Take care of yourself love ♥ I need to finish my stupid presentation, then I can get to work on your other pics!!!
This is totally not your fault! You were sick! That's not the kind of caretaking I mean. I'm more feeling like - I can't save people who are bored and lonely and looking for me to distract them, you know? No that doesn't even make sense. I don't know. Anyway no, Kaja, it's not you, and it's not your fault.
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*goes back to wrestling with damn travel fuck up for tomorrow*
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Have your chocolate, and get some rest, and try spending some time doing nothing in the sunshine. I love you. You're worth it.
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Lets see you have recently lost two rats, had a nasty cut to deal with, Japanses class isnt going well, and you started the IV treatments again. The universe has been doing some dumping lately and you need to tell the universe to piss off for a while.
The IV treatements are sucky but you were much better with those lung infections, remember?
Wolfwood can come on down here and we will send him on his way properly if that will help.
And given your victory on that big Japanese exam at xmas, you have permission to slack for semester. you do know that dont you?
So drink that dark chocolate, grump about for a bit, and find something fun to do. Spring equinox is Tuesday - do a rain dance for the helluva it!
love you,
anet
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Jack up the heat good and high and have that hotsprings in your tub. ^^ Play slow, calming music on a radio outside the bathroom and leave your door open to listen, or bring a radio in, or use your iPod.
Talk a walk when you're feeling up for it - something slow and ambling, maybe going down some roads you haven't been down before and have always told yourself, 'I want to check this out.' Or take a long drive and do the same thing. Explore and indulge yourself!
Also, if there's a type of cleaning you like - kind of an oxymoron there, XD - sometimes cleaning can help get a person out of the dumps. When your kitchen is always a mess, and the dishes always need doing, sometimes you feel better getting that cleaned up, you know? You'll be tired aftwards, but you'll have a clean kitchen you can mess up again. ^^
And then there's chocolate, or alcohol, or chocolate AND alcohol. :D :D The world is full of good things to make us happy! We just need to relax and find them sometimes. <3
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*hugs*
Good luck on that presentation.
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