sometimes, striking the blow for congruency doesn't always feel like a win

Jun 12, 2007 10:44

apparently the theme of my life this year is Realignment ( Read more... )

relationships, patterns, congruency, polyamoury

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lightcastle June 12 2007, 14:59:26 UTC
That sounds brave and difficult and important. *hug*

I seem to be seeing people making these kinds of boundary choices and alignments all around me lately - which they will invest in and which they won't. (Because while the hierarchy may not work the same in everyone's world, the need to make choices can't be avoided.)

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lightcastle June 12 2007, 15:01:06 UTC
The change thing is interesting as well. Directed change vs unfocused change.

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dietrich June 12 2007, 21:31:43 UTC
Interesting. mzrowan pointed me to your journal, and I've been enjoying your insights. The spiritual tradition in which I work stresses constant alignment, and congruence dovetails with that idea nicely.

I've experienced, and continue to experience, the troubles of which you speak, but I'm glad to see someone navigating them well; I hope to do so more and more myself as time goes on...

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theboomboom June 12 2007, 22:01:00 UTC
1. Thank you for sharing this. Food for thought.
2. Is it odd that I can feel proud of you, and not have ever met you?
3. I am sorry for your loss and proud of your gain.

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labelleizzy June 18 2007, 20:47:26 UTC
I like your meta-thinking and appreciate hearing about the thoughtful analysis and boundary refiguring.

Useful.

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