See, now I'm just pissed off

[mrw372435]

At people I don't know who don't even read my journal. But I'm going to rant about it anyway

Comments

[youvebeenpixied]

Consider yourself 100% supported on this one. [even though I don't know any other details :/ ]

[mrw372435]

Thank you. I feel less silly about being angry at people I don't know. :-)

[dawnd]

Word.

[mrw372435]

Thanks.

[mrw372435]

Not being poly, I can't always tell the difference, at least from the outside. All I know is that the secondary feels locked out of the "group" (which includes man-person, woman-person and woman-person's boyfriend) and no one seems to stop to consider what she's just been through. Be mad, by all means, but don't shut someone out and only comfort each other during something like this. It's inhuman.

Don't get me started on Polys, seriously. No, I mean it.

[therestlessdawn]

But glad to see your rage gland still works love.

Re: Don't get me started on Polys, seriously. No, I mean it.

[mrw372435]

I don't let it out much, but it's still in there. I rant with some regularity but seldom where anyone but the man has to see/hear it. How's the wedding plans?

[glitteringlynx]

I agree with almost everything you said. The only part where we disagree is where you rat out the primary woman. A marriage in many ways is a union of souls. What he is responsible for doing, he has done to her as well as to himself. I could be wrong, but I assume she did not know their sex was unprotected, even if she initially approved the sex itself. Having multiple partners is one thing. Having multiple partners and not using any protection is COMPLETELY different

[mrw372435]

In terms of priority, I think the one that just had an ectopic pregnancy remove comes first.