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[monstrrr]

I believe that it is out there. The person I am looking for, the life that I want. I believe it is out there. And screw you if you say that the type of person I'm looking for doesn't exist. It does. I've seen it. And I will find it for myself. I will not just settle. I can't... I can't *not* believe that what I want so badly doesn't exist for me.

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[frieliegh]

yes. absolutely.
There are factors in life which are out of our control, certainly. You can't realistically determine that you will walk around defying gravity by your 25th birthday, but you can determine to spend the time it takes to research ways to make that possible. You're not stupid. You're not out of touch with reality. You're just really realizing that life is what you MAKE it, and that if you're unhappy with where you are you do have the ability to change that. People fight against that all their lives and then bemoan the results of not coming to terms with it, and that IS stupid.

It's your life. Make it what you want. There is someone out there for you, and you have every reason to believe you'll find someone who wants to live their life the same way you do, and be partners on that journey. You will find what you want because you make your own way and create your own future.

Good for you.

*hugs* Love you. Take care of you, and ditch those who won't help you in that.

[monstrrr]

What annoys me is when people bemoan how their lives are so terrible, or like they haven't gotten anywhere, but they haven't TRIED to get it to go anywhere, either.

At least I'm trying. I'm entering a new chapter in my life, and I'm trying to make my life what I want it to be. I don't want to hear people telling me how it's not gonna happen when they can't even do anything to help themselves.

I don't know what got me in this mood, really. It wasn't anything specific. Lol. I'm not even in a bad mood, just... *shrug*

[frieliegh]

Yeah. If you've seriously TRIED to get somewhere and been crossed up on it, that's one thing. But those who are afraid that someone else's success will highlight their failure to do anything with themselves and their life just piss me right off. You do NOT sabotage other people out of your own petty fears at being shown up. If others' success makes you feel inadequate get off your lazy ass and DO SOMETHING about it

[moonlit_dreamz]

I love this both because I'm sooo proud and happy for you, and because it got me thinking. I can totally relate and it makes me happy to see that you are so determined and are a strong person. :) You'll find what you're looking for, and it'll probably surprise you when you do.

<3 Love you!