Comments | milesway: Seeking advice from friends...

milesway

Seeking advice from friends...

Oct 21, 2006 16:36

Hello all, first of all I would love if a) you could all read this, to least give me some advice as to your opinions on matters and b) express your own opinion and experience.

Very confused at the moment, extremely lost and I suppose I just need some peoples thoughts to help in my mixed up mind.

I had a great night with Dalfox, dimuthien, nikita_wolf, foxymalone and mistystriker at a few of ( Read more... )

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morganbatness October 21 2006, 23:10:41 UTC

If you haven't been doing it for a while yet I thin you just need to let the experiences sink in. I'm not sure how often you see guys and girls express themselves so open and sexually before.. I'd say give it some time. Continue trying the lifestyle until you're certain about your feelings.. You're an otter exploring a whole new world.. Of course you'll be uncertain for the time being. :)

broc_dresdroth October 22 2006, 00:28:57 UTC

I tried doing the clubs and bars in sydney, i tried it alone though. I found it really intimidating and nothing like what i was looking for. Everyone seems to be judged like a meal. I havnt found a gay bar/club im comfortable with yet. Although i dont try to look too much anymore anyhow. Even if you went to these clubs and began to feel more comfortable would you want that sort of lifestyle? i myself know i dont but as you said thats something you must answer.

zparcs October 22 2006, 04:33:16 UTC

Wow, you sound just like me.

You can have all the sex in the world, but in the end, what you really want is someone to cuddle, someone to wake up next to, someone you want to get to know and grow close to. My reputation kinda preceeds me, and when I tried to make an effort, it turned out to be too little too late. And my worst fear is being alone; it terrifies me.

It's self destructive, and christ if I could change the things I did, I would.

Go out and have fun, by all means, just don't destroy what you've got when you got it good.

My 2 cents. (Hm, what does .02 american work out in Aus? heh) siruskat October 23 2006, 15:46:29 UTC

See... I've never been huge into the clubbing and 'crazy' lifestyle. Don't get me wrong I've had my party days and I'm not -old- or anything or want to sound like I feel I'm better than anyone else by saying that I'm more mature than that or 'over it' but...eh ( ... )