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mepersoner

Hypothetical question

May 08, 2009 10:40

Say you've been dating a person for a number of years and love this person, but one day you stumble upon something that gives you proof, without any doubt, that this person has been lying about at least a quarter of his or her history to you. Instead, this person has been feeding you stories about someone else's life. When confronted with this ( Read more... )

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marian333 May 8 2009, 19:04:23 UTC

Get out. Seriously. It's extremely, brutally difficult to rebuild a relationship when trust is broken. And most of the time, it doesn't work, and you're talking about investing *years* into something where both people are going to be going through a lot of pain. The other person has to be willing to take a LOT of shit for what they did, because if you decide to work it out...there's going to be a lot of anger ( ... )

buzziebaby May 8 2009, 20:24:45 UTC

Leave.

kanzakii May 9 2009, 20:24:18 UTC

hey.. my real name is not kanzakii ( ... )

maddy_cake May 11 2009, 07:12:36 UTC

out of curiosity... what are the astriks for?

flash_falcon May 12 2009, 05:59:25 UTC

Well it all comes down to the fact that given the room for growth, people who contstantly lie will only lie more as time goes on as long as they can get away with it, or have been getting away with it. Sometimes knowing too much is pretty bad, ignorance really is bliss sometimes. (Unless your partner got a nasty STD or something, then that's just fucked up ( ... )