Comments | maisnonellan: Im So Fucked Up.

maisnonellan

Im So Fucked Up.

Jun 06, 2005 20:21

i dont know if i can even begin to explain how im feeling right now..but i think i really just need to write about this one part of all this confusion before i go crazy. please leave advice...but dont lecture me. obviously hes an asshole, obviously i dont deserve it...but it doesnt change how i feel ( Read more... )

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hebrokemyheart June 7 2005, 04:33:20 UTC

fuck him.

i'd do you. <3

citylove7785 June 7 2005, 19:35:30 UTC

first,
ditto to both of chloe's statements.

second,
i'm not going to say forget about him because i know how impossible that is. but i will suggest that you really try to remember the way things went down between you two so you don't fall into the same trap again.

third,
watch a lot of sad movies, listen to sad music, be sad, etc. for awhile. give yourself the summer to work through it. then be fabulous [even more so than you are right now if that is possible] and ready for a new experience by september. set some goals. give yourself things to feel good about.

that's my advice. and remember, you can call 1-800-hott-fucking-love anytime. ;)

starla07 June 7 2005, 21:43:40 UTC

Elle, I know somtimes I can be hard on you for not standing up for youself all the time, but I really understand what you mean. Its horrible what happened between you and Jay, and the fact that you lost your virginity to him will haunt you for a long time. You never stop mourning over your first. The best you can do is move on and try to not think about all of that. Its what I did and its worked, so maybe it will work out for you. I know thats not really stimulating advice, but its the best I have to offer. I miss you Elle, we need to hang out ASAP.

elbamoonraven June 9 2005, 13:53:27 UTC

boys suck. for some reason women have such a god damn hard time getting away from abusive men...Jared came down on me REALLY hard after we dated a year and a half, and I spent a lot of time getting over that, but a year or so after the breakup we started talking again and he apologized and now we're really great friends. I'm not saying this will happen to you, but you have to realize that it takes people time to cool off from things, get away from each other and reflect. While I doubt the men do THAT much reflecting, I'm sure the time helps, anyway. Bucky has this philosophy that it takes about the amount of time of the relationship to get over the relationship after a breakup, I mean TRULY, as in forgiveness etc the whole 9 yards ( ... )