Online dating

[m_lo_ol_m]

This whole online dating thing is sad, sad, sad. Whatever happened to the courtesy of a reply, even if it's a flat-out "No."? Even if it's a flat out "Yuckgetthefuckawayfrommeyouhippiefreakdrugaddict!"? That's a whole lot less psyche-damaging than no reply at all. Either everyone's lying about looking for "new friends," or lying about their typing

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[artkouros]

I always liked Out in America. But I did meet 3 relationship material guys on plain old yahoo.

[jp5040]

hi

[m_lo_ol_m]

Ah, my hair, I was visualizing my online ad when I wrote that, but you don't have that luxury. And I'm not sure my hair's visible in that chest-wax pic I posted. I wear my hair rather long-- about mid-back. It's something you either like or dislike.

I waxed my chest just to say I did it, plus I was kind of hoping that it wouldn't grow back as thick. Alas, it seems to be.

I'm glad you mentioned the guys that go online to have their egos stroked. I've a feeling that the guy I'm having dinner with tomorrow might be more into me than I him, and I'm worried that he might try to keep flattering me, an easy trap to fall into. I intend to be totally up front with him, though, so I hope that doesn't happen.

[jp5040]

I saw your hair was pulled back - i assumed hippie length - lol
But I'm from the kootenays - we have lots of long hair guys here.
As long as it's not a mullet - that's fine with me :D

I figured the chest wax was a personal "not take myself too serious" thing.

take care - I hope you enjoy that guy even if he's not your sex type. maybe a friend? maybe a surprise. never know. Good luck.

You will find the one... He will suddenly arrive and you will be surprised. I hope I found mine with this latest guy. the trouble is when you find a compatible one there is a lot of fear suddenly that this compatibility is already broken by some hidden flaw. It's not that easy. i think he's a very cautious person and I need to give him a lot of respect for that. I am a risk taker, but i can understand caution. I need my own space too, but I'm not afraid to claim it. Some people need proof that you are what you claim to be. This is where finding that special person is difficult.

[mogutaga]

I don't much care for long hair because what I find attractive in a man, partly, is tidiness: defined angles, stiffness, forward action. I figure I'm screwed up and messy enough for the both of us.

[mogutaga]

Also, UGH I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU LIKE RODNEY YEE.

(hahaha sorry that was so bitchy. I just see him as the weird yoga guy and I can't really get past that.)