Well plenty of people haunt themselves, it can vary what with, a fear or lingering sucpicion of a terrible event in the past, a fantastical future, a contempory threat, lots of things. I could come from a lot of things, especially if its an easy 'reason' for an issue, establishing some kind of causality with a problem you suffer would seem a common reaction: 'I get angry when I drive because the other driver cut me up', or 'I'm overweight because I had a minor operation ages ago (which in my case was pure BS
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i agree. and that is why i worry. i worry about 'pimping' someone else's story... belittling the true horror of surviving abuse by UNCONSCIOUSLY asserting a story... a lie... even if my intention to find the truth
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I know what you mean about finding the truth, I've always much prefered to know a horrible truth, than take solace in a void of ignorance.
I don't think you are pimping someone else pain, you have your own fears, and they are yours, not stolen or siphoned off. They are your emotions, and you share a very real pain, which you worry was caused by conditions similair to those you have knowledge about. And yeah, you are right about everyone doing it, I certainly relate things to me, its helps me empathise with people. I can't approach something from a robotic, godly perspective, I have to see it as affecting a human (Me basically).
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I know what you mean about finding the truth, I've always much prefered to know a horrible truth, than take solace in a void of ignorance.
I don't think you are pimping someone else pain, you have your own fears, and they are yours, not stolen or siphoned off. They are your emotions, and you share a very real pain, which you worry was caused by conditions similair to those you have knowledge about. And yeah, you are right about everyone doing it, I certainly relate things to me, its helps me empathise with people. I can't approach something from a robotic, godly perspective, I have to see it as affecting a human (Me basically).
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thank you!!
xoxo
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sometimes i wonder if i feel depersonalization.
not sure what it is.
well for your sake, i hope its just a terrible dream.
even if it isnt, you should keep it that.
a terrible dream.
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PS check out http://www.depersonalization.info/overview.html
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