You aren't ugly. You are very handsome and, on many occasion, yummy. I wish I were there to have said to that idiot: "Well, at first I mistook you for someone who had a brain, but then I realized you're working in a dunkin donut." Or something like that.
Aww, hey, thanks. I wouldn't insult his working at dunkin donuts just because that makes some sketchy assumptions about mental capabilities/class status, etc. but I definitely could have tossed some insults back in his direction.
Yes, I know it's not pc to insult his employment status as a dunkin donuts employee, but that's probably would have been the quickest come back I could think of. When I'm in a situation where someone insults me and I'm totally taken aback, it usually takes me two days to come up with a proper comeback.
But seriously, you are the bee's knee's in my book.
I'm sorry I didn't get back to you earlier about time and place. I think you would have benefitted from the discussion early on. I do think it's imperative that we meet, I think personally, I could gain from you, and I cannot assume that you would gain from me, but one could only hope. My buddy Lucas and I are starting a trans support group over at Smith in a few weeks, maybe you should try and attend. We've got a diverse population of individuals with all sorts of physical goals and body conceptions and I'm hoping that it will provide a safe space for growth, whatever that may mean.
Hey dude I found out and went there. Were you there? Do you have green hair on top? I scoped around and didn't see anyone who looked like your user pic and was like Baker, you idiot, you don't even know what he looks like!
I would be into checking out your Smith group or just chilling off my own campus sometime. Let's meet up, dammit!
I've had things like his happen too. The worst part for me is having nothing to say in response. I mean, explaining genderqueernes is most definitely something that won't help. I can't deal with this kind of mental shit. Sometimes I wish people would just punch me cause I feel like I would be able to get over a punch easier that this stuff.
It's this kind of shit that makes me either want to transition and get taken for a guy in daily situations like this or it makes me super pissed off at people who want the binary for their own reasons and can't see how this sort of interaction can just eat someone alive eventually.
hey man, i don't know you very well, but i just wanted to say what you wrote really hit home. i feel your pain. and i hate to think that this stuff happens as often as it does. don't let the assholes get to you too much. i think it's an incredibly brave thing to not transition and be able to be proud of who you are even with guys like this out there. i know i can't do it, and i guess that's why i'm glad that i'm transitioning. i hope he gets what he deserves. take care.
hey thanks man. This doesn't ever really happen to me at all, which I am lucky for. And I don't say I'll never transition, I've just been considering not transitioning for as long as I've been considering it altogether.
luke... hollly shit. you always strike these nerves with me and i swear, we identify so much differently but are in such similar gender spaces. i am so sorry about your experience... i have to respond to this in my journal because it could become quite a long comment. pony
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But seriously, you are the bee's knee's in my book.
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I'm sorry I didn't get back to you earlier about time and place. I think you would have benefitted from the discussion early on. I do think it's imperative that we meet, I think personally, I could gain from you, and I cannot assume that you would gain from me, but one could only hope. My buddy Lucas and I are starting a trans support group over at Smith in a few weeks, maybe you should try and attend. We've got a diverse population of individuals with all sorts of physical goals and body conceptions and I'm hoping that it will provide a safe space for growth, whatever that may mean.
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I would be into checking out your Smith group or just chilling off my own campus sometime. Let's meet up, dammit!
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It's this kind of shit that makes me either want to transition and get taken for a guy in daily situations like this or it makes me super pissed off at people who want the binary for their own reasons and can't see how this sort of interaction can just eat someone alive eventually.
Ugh.
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i hope he gets what he deserves.
take care.
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