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link_worshiper

Watch Me Stress!

Feb 16, 2013 09:32

I guess they say patience is a virtue because it's so damn hard. The past couple days have found me incredibly stressed out because of the uncontrollable urge I keep having to march right into the Whole Foods my green-haired darling works at, drag him from behind the cheese counter by the hair and say, 'We're talking this out like adults and fixing ( Read more... )

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sketchymatteh February 16 2013, 15:36:12 UTC

I feel like I'm about to possibly word myself horribly here.....but at the same time I feel the need to say something. Even though I have never met you in person, you're an individual that I admire. I started following you for your gorgeous artworks, and you're a really wonderful and interesting person and because I admire you I worry for you because I am an emotional overcaring git who worries about how people are doing and I hate to see people upset...and I'm making no sense already ( ... )

link_worshiper February 16 2013, 16:09:01 UTC

Wow, thanks for the high praise. It makes me feel bad that being an adult takes me away from my computer enough that I don't really have the time for fandom things that I once did. Phooey on growing up, albeit there are a few pluses in there as well, I suppose ( ... )

stripedpetunia February 17 2013, 06:41:14 UTC

Fuck that shit! It's all about you right now. He can look after his own shit or not (my money's on 'not').

link_worshiper February 17 2013, 14:59:45 UTC

Yeah. It's just hard to tell myself not to even care a little bit. Or worry. And that's in general.... I mean... remember stupid Katie? I don't even like her, and I still worry about her life with the asshole she chose to marry. So it's like five hundred times worse with someone I actually give a shit about :|

rurounitriv February 17 2013, 06:57:32 UTC

Please do NOT go argue with him at work. That's the kind of thing that can get him fired, and I'm assuming that you don't want that. It also gets you the reputation as the "crazy girlfriend", which, if you ever have to deal with the people there, will not do you any good either.

You have said that you tend to be impatient, and I'm seeing that in you right now. You said that he's an avoider, they need processing time, and if he isn't getting the help that you are, it's going to take him longer to work through stuff. I'm not saying that he's not being an idiot, because he is. I'm not saying that he doesn't need to get his head out of his ass and come see you, or at least talk to you, because he does. But I'm inclined to think that you may be rushing it.

I'm going to suggest that you should give him another week or so. Then, if he doesn't get in touch with you, you can track him down (outside of work) and give him hell for being an idiot. ;)

link_worshiper February 17 2013, 15:07:09 UTC

Heh, that is the exact reason I DON'T show up at his job. I know it will upset him, it's bad for both of us (we both work for Whole Foods, but different stores), and I do have enough sense to know that it won't do any good ( ... )