My kids might have done that sort of thing at age 3, but it wasn't a request for something. It was simply an observation. And it might have been a time when they were making sure that the rule was still the rule.
I am sure you know what she means when she says something like that, but I thought I would throw in another perspective.
I have one child who is able to ask for things politely and nicely and one who really has a hard time with this. They were born this way, I swear. One came out with "please" and "Thank you" already hard wired.
Yeah--I wish I could have remembered the other two examples. One was about getting to draw another picture and one was about what toys she could have in bed. There are ways that she talks about things that she doesn't want, she's just interested in them, this has a particular "if I come at it this way, maybe I can get it past her" tone/look.
Kata will sometimes say, wistfully, "I wish I could buy one of those" (usually a toy of the sort she knows we don't buy, or a treat with similar constraints)... (pause) "...but I know I can't." It seems to help her cope with the things she realizes are not even reasonable to ask for, and she will generally get annoyed if I try to tell her that I understand but am not planning on buying it right then.
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Wow, the resemblance to buxom_bey in the refrigerator section of Home Depot is uncanny.
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I am sure you know what she means when she says something like that, but I thought I would throw in another perspective.
I have one child who is able to ask for things politely and nicely and one who really has a hard time with this. They were born this way, I swear. One came out with "please" and "Thank you" already hard wired.
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