Comments | kuhpuh: Giving thanks.

kuhpuh

Giving thanks.

Nov 25, 2010 21:53

I am thankful. I am. But it's been a really rough day ( Read more... )

riad, luke, boo, josh, mom, thanksgiving, dad, girls

Comments 5

javabean November 27 2010, 06:05:59 UTC

I don't think you can "move on". You can keep going, and it gets better, but you never fully get over it. It would be similar in my mind if someone told the same thing to a rape victim. You can't wake up and magically feel like you did before Luke, and no one can understand it unless they have been through. I think we have this mentality in our culture that women who experience pregnancy loss can just move on somehow, which hurts so many people who need the time to be allowed to grieve and heal from the trauma they experienced. I wish your friends could have recognized that and have given you the support you deserve.

beingwyrd November 27 2010, 15:49:12 UTC

YES.

i agree with all this.

kuhpuh November 28 2010, 04:58:27 UTC

Me, too!

beingwyrd November 27 2010, 15:49:54 UTC

plus....

WE LOVES U!

*HUGS* (you know, hugs from 9 people all at once is a whole bunch a-huggin!)

kuhpuh November 28 2010, 04:58:03 UTC

Yay for hugs!!!!!!!