Comments | kanzeon_2040: massage & then B snuggles

kanzeon_2040

massage & then B snuggles

Nov 16, 2022 21:36

The 90-minute pro massage was great, I'm so glad I found this guy. It seemed my neck was a extra tight from my weight lifting, but only a little. When I got to B's condo I asked him for some ibuprofen, and by the end of dinner it was fine ( Read more... )

brian, relationships, massage, neck pain

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anais_pf November 17 2022, 20:22:21 UTC

There are people, and I am one of them, who just do not text. Oh, I know how, and I'll do it in cases where nothing else will work to send/receive a message from someone, but I don't like texting, I until this week did not have a phone that would allow me to text quickly and easily, and I refuse to set up my mandated new 4G cell phone to allow for easier texting (if that's even possible). My refusal to text as a way of socializing (and my refusal to join Kik) has meant that some potential partners just aren't. The whole texting culture of noticing and complaining about the amount of time it takes someone to reply, and guaging the frequency of texts, and so on, just seems silly to me. It's the in-person interactions that really count. Anyway, I wrote all this so you might feel better about getting only sporadic texts from DavidS. At least you're not dealing with someone whose attitude is like mine!

kanzeon_2040 November 17 2022, 20:39:51 UTC

Thanks for your perspective! I think I can have an ongoing relationship with somebody who texts as infrequently as he does, I just need to find some other way to deal with my insecurity. Presumably over time I'll realize that he continues to show up and we continue to have fun times together, but that I can't lean on him when he's not physically here, unless it is some sort of emergency. I have other people who are more frequent texters.

Or, he's too busy for another relationship, and bit off more than he can chew, which also happens, that was basically the problem with Recon Mike earlier this year. Sometimes people simply don't have the time that another relationship needs to grow. Only time will tell, and receiving more frequent texts from him isn't really the indicator of whether he's got time for a relationship. Recon Mike was fine with texting frequency, but he turned out to be a flake. DavidS is not a flake. Presumably he's just waiting until his future schedule is more clear to him, so that he can make a commitment to ( ... )