Comments | joannah: not even a fraction of it.

joannah

not even a fraction of it.

Oct 08, 2007 05:27

although i feel so completely lost i feel like i have found a new love for myself ( Read more... )

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ebound October 8 2007, 18:08:23 UTC

may i judge you?

cause you know how much i love judging.

i LoVe YoU daniellalisa October 9 2007, 22:52:14 UTC

Joannah, I realized that you are going through what I already went through and its hard for me to revisit that place. But I want you to know that I've always been here for you. When you told me one day how upset you were and you needed someone I was on my way to your house and you then you told me you were at work. I should've took it a step further and went to see you at work. I was trying to I hope you can see that. I was trying to be there for you but in your eyes I'm sure I did it all wrong and now I can see that. I wasn't giving you what you needed, but for me I thought I was doing as much as I could. I understand the hardships you are going through but as I went through them I felt as though I was alone and no one was there. I'm sorry for what I've done or what I have NOT done. I asked you once what do you need from me? What can I do for you? But you just won't tell me. Even if all you want is just a stop to say hello. And by the way I did stop into your work the other to say hello but unfortunately you weren't working ( ... )

in response anonymous October 13 2007, 15:17:40 UTC

"a real friend just knows, she doesn't have to ask what you need...she takes immediate steps to alleviate your pain in whichever way she knows how even if she doesn't know exactly what you want or need from her ( ... )

Re: in response ex_macherie October 13 2007, 19:29:40 UTC

Who are you to say any of that? Really if you have to say "sorry Joannah if I stepped on any toes" get the hint that you are. So rude. Daniella didn't mean any harm by that comment. Honestly who are you to say her comment went way to close to home, way out of line.

Sign your name next time so people know who you are.

Re: in response anonymous October 17 2007, 20:37:16 UTC

She might not have meant any harm but that doesn't mean she was free from causing it. I obviously knew i might of stepped on toes and thats why i put that disclaimer there; but that wasn't my point or prerogative. I was just standing up for Joannah. I may not know either of you personally but i do know Jo and i've been close to her for some time now. I recognized when a friend was hurting and i acted on it. Probably what you were doing when you responded to my comment in defense to Daniella. I'm not trying to get in the middle between best friends i was only trying to shed some light on the situation from Joannah's perspective since i know that Joannah doesn't have enough bark or bite to stick up for herself right now.
-Katherine Leigh Jablonski

Re: in response ex_macherie October 18 2007, 03:40:17 UTC

When the day comes that Joannah doesn't have enough bark or bite to stick up for herself you can type on here all you want and step on as many toes as you want.

Quite honestly I've known "Jo" a lot longer than you have and she doesn't need anyones help in letting people know how she feels...try again, you have absolutely no justification for writing that comment.

When you act on a friend hurting don't bash someone else, focus on the person hurting. It seemed like you wanted to tell Daniella what you felt about her more than you wanted to help your friend feel better. You really have no case for all I'm concerned so try as you might but just take it as it is, you were out of line.

Katie Laduzinsky

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