I am bored and I like this community, so you will have to deal with curing my boredom.

[aegypius]

So, what is it about most people that drives you crazy the mostIs it bad English, like the above sentence, or something else

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[m_danson]

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[aegypius]

Hm, kay. Not sure what tags to use here, but I did so anyway.

[m_danson]

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[m_danson]

You might also enjoy rationalsnark.

[introject]

When people are just... aggressive. For no reason other than to drive other people up the wall. I just don't understand why being abrasive would help you at all, or make you look less douchey to anyone else.

[hversu]

I agree heartily.

They get bonus negative points if someone calls them on their asshattery and they then proceed to attack the person who called them out.

[bronxelf_ag001]

People who are convinced that *their* "should" (morals, ethics, traditions, mores, etc.) are required to be universal, particularly when those things are not based on anything rational, but simply their own feelings.

This becomes infinitely worse when combined with extroversion.

[aegypius]

Goodness, yes. I argue with my dad constantly because he does exactly what you just described. He seems to think his subjective self-observations are just as good as scientific facts.

[bronxelf_ag001]

I go way out of my way to keep strong ESFJ's out of my life for this reason.

[letters_in_sand]

I've noticed the pattern that ESFJ's drive me batshit in general.

[katayla]

Lately it's been people who excessively question me about about every single damn statement I utter. I'm not talking about knowledge claims, but opinions or things about my personal life. Like I say I don't like football and they ask, "But why? Have you ever tried it? Are you sure?" Or I tell them I'm not close to my family. "You're not? Why not? I can't imagine not being close to my family."

It makes me want to go back to my hermit lifestyle!

[aegypius]

GAHH yes. It's as if they think we don't know what we're saying. If I wasn't certain about what I was saying, I would say so.

[hversu]

That's one of the reasons I avoid the human race as much as I feasibly can. It's irksome in the extreme when people assume that they must surely know me and my preferences better than I do.

Now I'm having unfond memories of a particular ex informing me basically that I did like to play sports, but that when I said I didn't I was just being narrow-minded. When in fact, I have never liked to play sports.

The family discussion is one I frantically avoid. People who are zealously convinced that the family is always the highest of all good things in the world frighten me.

[z8z8]

I'm currently in my hermit lifestyle and I highly recommend it

[athenaltena]

Lately it's people who second-guess everything they (and by extension, I) decide on doing. It makes me want to bang my head against a wall and say "Stick -- With -- Your -- Damn -- Decision!" since people backpeddling drives me nuts.