On sex and stuff. But mostly on words and how one defines oneself.

[innerbrat]

There's a bit of a meme kick going round in which bi folk talk about being bi.

Comments

[innerbrat]

Yeah, that's annoying too.

And ALSO, the attitude from some bisexual or gay people that not being more open and less monogamous is somehow a bad thing.

Grrrr.

(*pokes website* gah. CCS broke)

[minnesattva]

Ah, but obviously if you're bi then it doesn't count as cheating on your girlfriend if you snog a boy, or vice versa.

[rowanberries]

Yes, that is deeply annoying, and I'm monosexual (*salutes Debi*) in a relationship with nobody. Clearly, then, by this logic, I would snog anything male!

Um. No?

S'sheer ignorance. Shouldn't be allowed.

[buongiornodaisy]

"Why don't you snog that fit bloke?"
"Because I have a girlfriend."
"But you're bi!"

...burn it. With fire. Pls?

[davegodfrey]

Phallophile: someone of either sex attracted to males.

Pendant Alert. Shouldn't that be Androphile?

[minnesattva]

Well, if we're stuck with polyamory and other words that mix their roots (ooh, wordsex), one needn't feel too bad for being thusly inconsistent at this point, I say.

[davegodfrey]

Its not the mixing of languages to make new words (though anyone who thinks the plural of octopus is octopi needs to meet Architeuthis on its own turf), but that Andros means male, and Phallus doesn't. This new word just means someone who "loves the cock" as they say.

[innerbrat]

Say it with me. "Phhhhhalllloppphhhiiillle"

MUCH better mouthfeel.

[innerbrat]

And a very nice you it is too.

[clayrobeson]

I'm ME damn it.
MEEEEEEEEEEEEE!

Amen sistah! Sing it from the mountaintops!!

[pippaalice]

I can understand your reasoning but recently I've realised how important it is for people to take back being bisexual (I know how ridiculously hippy this sounds!!) and not let it = slvt who can't control themselves, or even worse (for me) person who cannot make their mind up, or is too scared to fully come out.

Obviously being poly I don't really object to people assuming I want to kiss someone else but I'd be a bit annoyed if they said it so directly.

[innerbrat]

Actually, it's you fault I started calling myself a lesbian, you know. Evil woman.

I'll try and get back into it. Shouldn't be too hard. Hopefully...

[pippaalice]

What did I do? Gosh I am always a contradiction aren't I? ;)