Comments | indigodaisy: When it hits, it hurts

indigodaisy

When it hits, it hurts

Mar 19, 2009 21:08

I feel stupid admitting it - but TV is making me feel sad and lonely. Me and Beth as usual on Thursdays catch up on the DVR recorded and everything we turn on is about relationships and resolution and happy endings and love. It makes me feel really sad. I feel I'm at a point in my life that I want nothing more then to be loved by someone and only ( Read more... )

sad, love

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cluelessinchi March 20 2009, 01:43:29 UTC

::hugs:: I am sorry to hear that this happened.

kisekinotenshi March 20 2009, 01:55:34 UTC

I think the problem might be that it seems like you're going after guys your own age, who aren't out of their sowing of wild oats stage. Maybe you should try for some guys closer to 30. It's a bigger age difference, but generally they're more of the mind to settle down than guys our age.

You're just too mature for your age, love. Which is NOT a bad thing. It just makes things a bit more difficult. <3

there are always shallow reasons to be lonely indigodaisy March 20 2009, 04:07:18 UTC

hehe the shallow part of me wants a guy closer to my age though

the13thsquirrel March 20 2009, 03:08:06 UTC

Oh, Meggers.... ♥

I understand. I don't even meet girls at this point.

indigodaisy March 20 2009, 04:07:36 UTC

you need to go to gay bars love

the13thsquirrel March 21 2009, 02:36:04 UTC

...I get hit on by MEN in gay & lesbian bars. :(

spkr4thedead51 March 20 2009, 03:16:12 UTC

as a guy, i'm going to say ignore the question of age. you're just as likely to find someone your age as you are someone who is closer to 30. guys have that same desire for love, companionship and connection. it's been more than two years since i had any of that. so i guarantee you that i can sympathize with what you're feeling (aside from the drunkenness). on the flip side, i hate to say it, but it's kind of selfish to ask why everything else is so much more important than you. take joy in the love that you had and received from the guys who have been in your life. having any love, for any amount of time is something to relish, not something to regret. as long as you never decide that you won't find someone to love and grow old with, you'll always have the chance to. and along the way, you'll have the chance to share love with other people. look forward to those periods. they will help you better understand yourself and will lead to you finding the person who you'll stay with ( ... )

indigodaisy March 20 2009, 04:12:41 UTC

thanks ^.^ I appreciate the words. I think its the transient love connections that make me feel so sad. Not that I hook up randomly with strangers .. but it just seems like all the fellows in my web of relationships are more interested in fucking me occasionally then looking for a relationship and I want this connection so bad that I'm willing to settle for those brief late night tussles. It might be selfish to want to be more important then everything else but I'd like to feel like I'm worth a couple hours a couple days every week of one person's time.

deagle22 March 20 2009, 12:39:59 UTC

*glomp* I still lovis you!