Tips for Better Life ( Read more... )

So I kinda liked spending time with him.

And then we had sex.

And like all guys that seem to be around me right now, he's gone.

Because he got what he wanted, I guess.

I fucking suck at life. I told myself not to do this. I told myself no, no no. Why didn't I vocalize that to him instead of saying, "Do you have a condom?"

I have some serious goals I'd like to set for 2009. I'm not going to flimsily call them New Year's Resolutions. These are active goals for my life:

• Take More Pictures. This is a goal every single year. Take a lot of pictures. I want documentation of me and my friends. Documenting our fun. Our love for each other. Make as many memories as possible ( Read more... )

Remember the butterflies? The giddiness? The feeling of being sucker-punched right in the gut when you unexpectedly happen on the object of your affection? I used to feel those all the time. Potentially too much. I was constantly finding a new love to obsess about. Once after a first date, I spent the entire next day belting out 'Endless Love' to ( Read more... )

..a banana for breakfast, because I'm pretty much allergic to everything else. I can't eat a lot of foods, but I do anyways. I never regret it, but I always pay for it. I carry Tums with me everywhere I go so I can eat and feel "normal." I don't like to inconvenience people in their eating habits just because I'm awkward.

..to wear corsets and ( Read more... )

They get too attached. People don't know how to date casually because they get too attached ( Read more... )

...for those of you mending a broken heart.

First things first. You need a roll of duct tape. Because, well, duct tape fixes everything.
Even a broken heart.

Now that we've got the means to fix you up if you're falling apart, let's try to keep you from falling apart, all right, baby?

You're going to need to surround yourself with good people. Yes, yes ( Read more... )

• Skydiving
• Whitewater Rafting
• Bungee Jumping
• Hot Air Ballooning
• Weekend Trip to Big Bear

Be more accepting. I want people to accept me for who I am, whether they like me or not. And I need to do the same. Not everyone will make the same life decisions that I will make. And while I do not always agree with the choices they make, it is THEIR lives, and not mine. Accept them as the people and friends that they are.

Never hate. Anger is ( Read more... )

Is the group of people I know? It is me? Why don't we have themed get togethers and crazy times? Or maybe "they" do. And I'm not a part of it. As long as I can remember, I've wanted to do those fun things my cousin has always done. The White Party, The Blue/Red/whateverothercolor Party, "Wiggin' Out," Formal Attire. Maybe it's because we're still ( Read more... )