observation.

[honeyrider]

making a post about one's personal life in a public sphere is rarely a good idea

Comments

[psychicmedium26]

I posted where'd you post to your other post! lol sorry!

[honeyrider]

ha, now i understand. you posted to my post about a mop and my immediate thought was "oh shit, did i post to the everything to the nook?"

i was referring to a post i made yesterday on eljay.

[psychicmedium26]

ah! I didn't comment on that post because I didn't know what to say. Every relationship is so different and people are so different. There are no clear cut answers at all!

[honeyrider]

minus first "to the".

[mrs_animosity]

I often fight with that very thing myself when figuring out what to post to my own journal!

[catdraco]

Yeah, it's true. It's one major reason I don't post much negative stuff about the Spousal Unit and me.

It's hard though. Sometimes you need to get things off your chest. Where can you do that if not in a personal journal? ...I guess filters can help a bit.

[honeyrider]

sure. but if you rarely say anything, then toss out a few lines with negative connotations, will the feedback really have any value? that's what i did. it's pointless.

[ex_skewedso]

No judgments here. And I didn't respond to your comment back, but I'm glad you talked it out.

Suggestion? If the general public is not an option, either friend-lock sensitive posts or create a filter so not everyone can read them.