Really?

[hani]

Thomas: I am curious? Did you participate in slutwalk? You don't seem like a slut. :)
  I was readying your facebook update
  it loked like you've been having a good time with people.
 me: I don't seem like a slut? How do you define a slut?
  I wrote a note about Slutwalk Chicago
21:29 Maybe you should read it, first?
 Thomas: I only saw that you had met

Comments

[sorayume]

Putting candy bars out in stores tempts me to eat/steal them, but that is not the stores fault for putting them out there. The same applies to men regarding women. If men can't control their sexual urges maybe they should just lock themselves in a basement instead of insisting women live so that they never accidently 'tempt' men.

[hani]

But candy, gosh, isn't a biological weakness that's common to women! *faux innocence*

I KNOW! Why don't people suggest locking men in a basement rather than restricting women if it's "common" belief that women tempt men, oh noes???

[hani]

Really? I grew up thinking of "slut" as a shameful word.

[sorayume]

Same here, when I am 'upset'/confused at myself for doing something sexually, I tend to punish myself by calling myself 'such a slut'. It is a terrible thing to do to myself, but when you are raised to be ashamed of your own sexuality sometimes it is hard to fight negative attitudes, even towards yourself (I am far harsher on myself than others)