Jesus Christ I hate this girl. I wanted to make a post myself but I didn't think I had enough ammo. Add a few more spelling errors and we have a brand new CrystalMoon!
I'm pretty sure I've heard similar things out of the mouths of people who ended up being strippers.
And anyone with any common sense keeps their personal life and opinion separate from their business. I can't even discuss tv shows with my coworkers because I don't want them to get scared of my rabid hatred of most of the shows they watch.
I love how she finished her whole little rant with "...you can give up being yourself for money if you want to, but some of us have higher standards than that."
I had no idea that fiscal responsibility was such an undesirable attribute.
What this community has shown me over the years is that lolita is unique for attracting quite a selection of deeply conservative girls as it gives them an opportunity to cravenly attention-seek via crazy foreign fashion 'without looking like skanks' (verbatim!). It doesn't take much to have the deeply cloistered/sheltered adult women of EGL to start slutshaming, pointing fingers, sniffing at 'the mainstream', and whathaveyou to start clogging up everything.
She's definitely not the first, and won't be the last. I'm glad the mods were quick on the uptake and deleted her self-martyring post. :P
But agree completely, for some reason lolita tends to get all these types to turn up. Although after experiencing (through a friend) some of the communities that these girls come from like dollfies and cosplay, it's really not too surprising. Don't get me wrong, I have those interests too, but some of those comms are allllll about kissing each other's a** 24/7. If anyone so much as makes a suggestion how to improve something they get all but murdered for being "mean". It's ridiculous!
I don't get it either! I can't comment on non-American/Canadian groups, but the obsession I see at never saying anything even vaguely negative, even when invited via requesting constructive criticism, is mind-boggling. YMMV depending on city/location, but that's the predominant culture on the forums and in many other areas. O_o
IDK if it's generational (self-entitlement issues and the requirement that everyone is praised and treated nicely despite what their actions are), or if it's something to do with a biased sample (lolita attracts conservative girls, conservative girls come from a particular RL society that encourages particular etiquette, ergo that etiquette is transferred to lolita as they participate and then affects interactions when they meet others who aren't from the same background, and it makes lolitas in general considered bitches as a result from the clash). :S God you could write entire essays about the social makeup of EGL. XD
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Add a few more spelling errors and we have a brand new CrystalMoon!
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"God will provide for me as long as I follow what he says"
We'll be seeing an "Emergency DS to pay for rent!!" in the next few years.
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And anyone with any common sense keeps their personal life and opinion separate from their business. I can't even discuss tv shows with my coworkers because I don't want them to get scared of my rabid hatred of most of the shows they watch.
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I had no idea that fiscal responsibility was such an undesirable attribute.
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What this community has shown me over the years is that lolita is unique for attracting quite a selection of deeply conservative girls as it gives them an opportunity to cravenly attention-seek via crazy foreign fashion 'without looking like skanks' (verbatim!). It doesn't take much to have the deeply cloistered/sheltered adult women of EGL to start slutshaming, pointing fingers, sniffing at 'the mainstream', and whathaveyou to start clogging up everything.
She's definitely not the first, and won't be the last. I'm glad the mods were quick on the uptake and deleted her self-martyring post. :P
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But agree completely, for some reason lolita tends to get all these types to turn up. Although after experiencing (through a friend) some of the communities that these girls come from like dollfies and cosplay, it's really not too surprising. Don't get me wrong, I have those interests too, but some of those comms are allllll about kissing each other's a** 24/7. If anyone so much as makes a suggestion how to improve something they get all but murdered for being "mean". It's ridiculous!
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IDK if it's generational (self-entitlement issues and the requirement that everyone is praised and treated nicely despite what their actions are), or if it's something to do with a biased sample (lolita attracts conservative girls, conservative girls come from a particular RL society that encourages particular etiquette, ergo that etiquette is transferred to lolita as they participate and then affects interactions when they meet others who aren't from the same background, and it makes lolitas in general considered bitches as a result from the clash). :S God you could write entire essays about the social makeup of EGL. XD
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wait, didn't jesus basically wear a dress?
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I HIGHLY doubt Jesus is gonna be like OH SHIT YOU DIDNT HAVE A SEAM SEWN IN BETWEEN YOUR LEGS? NO HEAVEN FOR YOU BLASPHEMER!
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LIKE.
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