A little self-reflection

[fushigi_na_chou]

~.: I've come to realize that when I begin to notice there are emotional wounds in the people I have relationships with -- and that's any sort of relationship -- I automatically gravitate towards them. It's something I've been struggling with ever since I became aware it's what I do. Years of self-analysis have helped me to know where this habit

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[zekitty]

Guh, I have so much to say in response, and 90% of it will likely be useless, but I'll try and spit it all out. :3

[fushigi_na_chou]

I think most of what you said (if not all of it) was very helpful. :) First off, I just wanna say that I'm so glad you were able to confront Nick and come to a place where you could forgive him and forgive yourself. Forgiveness I think really is the epitome to moving on from things in life. :)

But yes, I intend to be as supportive with the hand-holding as I can be without getting overly involved in his issues. I know that in the end, he's the one that has to confront past hurts and change his present feelings on things. It's just hard for me to not jump in and try to fix things because I hate seeing people in pain. :( But I will do what I can, and then let God do the rest. ♥