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[swampsickness]

hello, i have two unrelated questions:

1) i'm using a tri-top right now (i'm in between sizes and went with an xs) and i absolutely cannot exercise in it.  just playing nintendo wii with my little sister for a few minutes was painful.  i'm looking into binding options that will allow me to exercise while binding as much as possible.  i'm

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[ragetti_wench]

Sadly, I can't give you any advice regarding your first question, but I figured I might throw my two bits in about your second

[anderov]

Also on the second question

[xxweaponx]

I'm approaching mid 30s and also hear these terms regularly.

[tommykaine]

I think that if you're pre-T and pre-op, it could be tough to find gay men who are interested in having sex with you, because TBH, a lot of them might not read you as male. Post-T and post top surgery, it's definitely been possible for me to find gay and bi men who are attracted to me, whereas before transition, I doubt they would have been.

I think it might be easier and more possible if you have a good relationship beforehand, but less likely if you go cruising :/ not sure though since I have no experience whatsoever in this.

[tommykaine]

1. I would suggest a bigger binder, it sounds like the one you bought is too small for you.

2. As it has been said, if you're pre-everything it will probably be more difficult, and you might have more luck building a relationship with someone you know than cruising; I know, not fair :( but it's already pretty difficult to find gay and/or bi male interested in transmen even when they are post-everything.

[rubiks_cube6]

1: I sugest you go to www.lesloveboat.com/shop They have binders specifically designed for sport. I've ordered from them before, and the binder has come on time.

2: I'm kind of assuming your not on T, but once you are, growing some facial hair can help with what people think you are.