swampsickness
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ftm
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hello, i have two unrelated questions:
1) i'm using a tri-top right now (i'm in between sizes and went with an xs) and i absolutely cannot exercise in it. just playing nintendo wii with my little sister for a few minutes was painful. i'm looking into binding options that will allow me to exercise while binding as much as possible. i'm considering the 974 muscle shirt or 993 body shirt from underworks. (however, the body shirt looks like it's really relaxed, and perhaps no better than a sports bra.) does anyone have experience with either of these products? how well do they bind, compared with a sports bra or other cheaper option?
2) relates to sex
this seems like a really silly question, and i'm sure i'll come off sounding ignorant, but i'm totally new to gay sex and gay men and need some advice. i'm a top and have never had the slightest interest in doing otherwise. the problem i'm having is that most men, including friends from the internet who are very sensitive to trans issues, seem to assume that i'm a bottom from the get-go. i'm small and sort of "pretty" and maybe that's why. i'm just wondering how other gay ftm tops approach sex. i really want to have sex with a man but i feel like in my situation finding a partner is going to be nearly impossible. any advice on sex with gay men would be appreciated, sorry for being so clueless on the topic.
thank you!
1) i'm using a tri-top right now (i'm in between sizes and went with an xs) and i absolutely cannot exercise in it. just playing nintendo wii with my little sister for a few minutes was painful. i'm looking into binding options that will allow me to exercise while binding as much as possible. i'm considering the 974 muscle shirt or 993 body shirt from underworks. (however, the body shirt looks like it's really relaxed, and perhaps no better than a sports bra.) does anyone have experience with either of these products? how well do they bind, compared with a sports bra or other cheaper option?
2) relates to sex
this seems like a really silly question, and i'm sure i'll come off sounding ignorant, but i'm totally new to gay sex and gay men and need some advice. i'm a top and have never had the slightest interest in doing otherwise. the problem i'm having is that most men, including friends from the internet who are very sensitive to trans issues, seem to assume that i'm a bottom from the get-go. i'm small and sort of "pretty" and maybe that's why. i'm just wondering how other gay ftm tops approach sex. i really want to have sex with a man but i feel like in my situation finding a partner is going to be nearly impossible. any advice on sex with gay men would be appreciated, sorry for being so clueless on the topic.
thank you!