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fit_2b_tied

The sushi date and other things I've been thinking about since

Jul 04, 2006 16:10

I have absolutely no gaydar for the type of women that actually interest me - feminine looking with a fabulous sense of style plus the confidence to back it up, bisexual, independent, and undeniably intelligent. From my experience, most of the women who would seem to qualify turn out to be very heterosexual. As for the women looking to experiment ( Read more... )

dating, female bisexuality, revelations

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bratenfrau July 5 2006, 14:23:18 UTC

Sorry that she didn't show you some wonderful new non-trashed side to herself and change your mind about her entirely. But it's good to know that you're ethical enough not to just use her (which would probably have been easy, given her propensity for the drink). You gotta hone that gaydar! :)

fit_2b_tied July 5 2006, 16:28:28 UTC

Well, if I'd been the type to just use her, then I may have well been one the nasty, asshole guys that I hate so much. Good gawd! I'm so lucky that's never happened to me... still, I hate that!!

As for the gaydar... Yes!! ha ha!! The biggest problem is that I'm high maintenance girly, so everyone assumes I'm 100% straight... the same goes for the girls that interest me. Unless its a fetish party (where people are more open minded to diversity), or a swinger party (where I have to say NO to guys, and eyeball their wives... ha ha ha!), or a girls only party, there's little hope of meeting the women I find attractive and interesting.

bratenfrau July 5 2006, 17:42:50 UTC

I gotta say, none of those scenarios sound like ideal places to meet a girlfriend that you can really connect with on more than just a purely sexual level. But I'm sure you already knew that. :)

fit_2b_tied July 5 2006, 21:39:54 UTC

This is precisely the dilemma I'm talking about... Of course, having been a part of the goth/fetish scene for the past 8 years, I have to admit that I **have** met really fabulous friends through it. The only difference is that the women with whom I've become friends are straight, or are now such good "friends", that it would be weird (for me -and- them) to suddenly try turning it into something else ( ... )