::headdesk::

[demonakitty]

Positive: Dad went through surgery super quickly. They decided not to crack his chest. Woo! They took out part of whatever the mass was, but not all of it. Most importantly, the part they took out was the part that was resting on his heart. The other part is sitting on a nerve that makes his voice work (insert medical term here). I don't want my

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[ecfrost]

Wow. Seriously wow. I think when it comes to pregnancy the only people involved in the decision should be the parents and a doctor, if necessary. I get that your sister probably means well, but I got asked last year "Oh when are you going to get pregnant??" I had just met this woman about minutes before (at a mutual friend's baby shower) and, not joking, had to bite my tongue to stop from replying "I don't know. When won't you be overweight?" I just don't see how it's ANYONE else's business. So I'm sorry. *hug*

Yay your father!! :D

[only_po]

"When are you going to get pregant?"

"When? Oh, you know, probably just a little while after my partner's sperm penetrates my egg and the resulting zygote implants in my womb." (but extreme literalism tends to be my default with rude/inappropriate questions.)

[only_po]

your dad: yays? Long road trips suck, I know ( ;) ) but it's good that you'll get to see him no matter where you have to bunk.

Arturo: Your brother-in-law is (back) in Cuba? As of when?! And why?!

Christina (or is it Cristina?): If you haven't left yet, I may have some earplugs I could give you.

[spitfiresnc]

I always look to people who are child-less for advice on family planning ... sigh.

So glad things went well for Dad's surgery. It's a huge relief.

When are you going to stop by and see us when you are down here?

[demonakitty]

One day! But we actually ended up in Sheboygan, so I wouldn't have seen you anyway. <3