What's in a label?

Jul 28, 2007 11:39

Last week we received a phone call from relatives down country. After chatting briefly (Sparky and Firecracker were over), I passed the phone on to my brother.

As short while later, bigtaz came back into the house, sounding disbelieving and more than a little pissed off. Apparently, said relative had asked a question about "Deb's 'friend', Ben." ( Read more... )

family, ben, polyamory, rant, civil union

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emsporter July 28 2007, 06:52:57 UTC
I don't know about your family, obv, but my nana tends to use "Friend" because she has no clue what term is acceptable to use in relation to Tobes.

Having said that, you'd think "civil union partner = husband" wasn't too difficult to rememeber!

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debxena July 29 2007, 01:35:25 UTC
*grin* You'd think!

Hope you had a fantastic birthday, hon :)

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filmgeeknz July 28 2007, 12:13:27 UTC
It's nice to have a 'friend' as solid, sexy, reliable and loving as my husband.

That's actually a really nice quote if it becomes

"It's nice to have a friend as solid, sexy, reliable and loving as my husband."

It shows how lucky you are. You married your friend. I'd like a husband like that.

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debxena July 29 2007, 01:36:04 UTC
*waves magic wand* Then you shall have one, my dear!

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debxena July 29 2007, 19:03:21 UTC
Sure! *waves wand*

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enigmaticblues July 28 2007, 16:31:36 UTC
How very odd. I never would have thought of Ben as your "friend," unless it was within the rubric of your husband. Maybe I would have called him your "partner" if I didn't use "husband" but... *shakes head* Very odd.

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debxena July 29 2007, 01:37:41 UTC
That does seem to be the general response. We're all rather perplexed!

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debxena July 29 2007, 19:03:02 UTC
Mistress Matisse is fantastic, and I've been reading her blog (and her weekly columns in The Stranger) for a few years now.

Hope you are well too!

Present? *wide-eyes*

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