And there really is! Split into sections for easy reading/skimming purposes. Assuming there's anyone left who's interesting in reading/skimming...

WorkSome of you know that I've been job-hunting since the end of last year, looking to find part-time work I can do from home. The reasons being a) migraine and b) spending time with my brother while I ( Read more... )

An update on my/our lives, in no particular order ( Read more... )

Last week we received a phone call from relatives down country. After chatting briefly (Sparky and Firecracker were over), I passed the phone on to my brother.

As short while later, bigtaz came back into the house, sounding disbelieving and more than a little pissed off. Apparently, said relative had asked a question about "Deb's 'friend', Ben." ( Read more... )

Here are the first 10 questions, answered. I'm surprised to find that only NZers have questioned, and of those, I have met all but one of you ...

Come on overseas friends! Ask me questions! As before, all questions kept anonymous, and you can ask me anything at all.

Those who have already questioned, feel free to ask me new ones :)

Question 1 ( Read more... )

When you hear the phrase 'Swap Club', spoken by me, what are you most likely to think of first?  Is it:

a) Oh, that wacky Deb! She's joined a community where they all talk about the partners they swap!

or

b) Oh, that wacky Deb! She found a website where you can swap books for free!

Well, if you're 
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Disclaimer: if you think this rant is aimed at you, you're probably right. But you're not the only one it's aimed at.

Honestly, people - WTF is wrong with your communication skills? It's not that difficult to express yourself in such a way that the person you are talking with can understand you. And so that they can reply, even. Dialogue! Yeh ( Read more... )

Following up on the strange test that *checks* 67 of you took the time to look at, if not attempt to answer:

Apparently I made it too hard. When the most correct answers out of 20 is 13 ... yeah. Here are the answers, and some more information - because there are stories behind most of these answers :)

1: Which one of these happened to Deb at ( Read more... )

I have heaps to write about and don't know where to start.  Highlights instead, I think.

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This strikes me as entirely appropriate ...

( Which Jhonen Vasquez creation am I? )

Hello readers! I've just posted a f-locked entry to those on my sex-filter list, as well as to a few people I have listed with polyamory as an interest. If you didn't see the previous post, about a newspaper article, and you want to see the entry/want to be on the sex-filter, please comment here and I will add you!