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[dark_dreymer]

Met Hanna and Yasmin in town to go to the pub yesterday, didn't have the best time ever. I'm not a major fan of going to the pub, I don't have ID so I choose not to drink alcohol because if asked for ID I won't be able to show any and I guess that takes a lot of the point in going to the pub away. Besides that, we always seem to spend all day at

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[its_davy_baby]

so I rank right up there with cigarettes in the scale of things you love.

I'm 100% sure that you'd taste better than any cigarette would. :)

[dark_dreymer]

To quote Hanna, "Don't worry about it. He's a douchebag." She was a little drunk, but I find myself rather reassured XD

I guess I just feel that I was right in my assumption. I don't like people who use the word love too easily, especially so in relationships. I get that people use it casually, the problem is there isn't an easy alternative to use in a relationship so there's no good way to measure a person's sincerity.

[tawg]

As someone who has had EPIC angst over relationships in the past, my best advice is not to worry about it. 'What ended the relationship' doesn't matter anymore - it's over, and it's not like you'll be back together again. Try to think of the relationship as 'this thing that happened'. Don't label it as a good or bad thing yet, because you're going to be dealing with it and dealing with yourself for a while. It's just a thing in your life that happened. A long with a hundred other things

[dark_dreymer]

I guess I know most of this in my head, I just have a difficult time dealing with my emotions. Most of the time I'm a very stoic person, so when I do get upset I don't know how to handle the situation; then there's the problem that I strive to be a kind person but part of my doesn't want to be, so I can actually feel the id/superego struggle going on inside my head *brainmelt*

I'm just a little annoyed at Hanna and Yasmin not giving me warning that he was gonna be there too. When I used to get a text asking if I wanted to meet the girls in town, it was just the three of us. Now there's a whole host of others who might be tagging along and I never find out til I get there.

[tawg]

Well, now that you know it's usually a group, you could be pro-active and text them back to ask who's coming :p

[dark_dreymer]

Thing is, I'd be fine with anyone else they want to invite to tag along. I just thought my friends had enough savvy to not invite my ex along after we'd just broken up and forget to tell me.