Strength, please

[clarabellemcnts]

Sometimes life is so very difficult. Everytime i turn around, it seems like more and more of my friends are pairing up and pairing off. Of course, that could simply be on Facebook, and is completely false in real life. what is real these days? facebook? LJ? face-to-face communication? there are so many gadgets and ways of getting a hold of others

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[spatialrift47]

If it's any consolation, I'm still completely and totally single.

[clarabellemcnts]

thanks. Sometimes theres a part of me that wonders "what charcter flaw do i have that i'm still single?" But it's not what flaw do i have, but rather, what have i to offer that i need to be single to do it.

[wschmrdr]

I'm also single, but considering we're probably as compatible as ice cream and chicken, things probably wouldn't work out.

If there's someone out there for me, then there's someone out there for you. Lately I haven't been trusting facebook since pretty much anything could happen. But, you never know.

[clarabellemcnts]

in the same dish? egads, that'd be nasty.

which am i? the ice cream or the chicken? ;-)

with facebook, you really have to know the people involved to be able to say whether or not two people really are in a relationship. otherwise, facebook is completely unreliable.

[liriteliora]

Not all the pairings you see are going to last...so don't let it get to you. All the weddings I've gone to this past year have freaked me out a little, but I just have to remind myself that I do not expect myself to marry anytime soon and so it doesn't matter what anyone else is doing. (I am very happy for my friends though!)

I have to find this song somewhere: some woman sings it, but I can't remember her name. The song is called "Single" and it's all about being single and enjoying it. Find it if you can.

Along the lines of "don't it always seem to go..." you will find someone when you're not looking nor feel pressured to look. That might or might not be from a fortune cookie, but I it's usually true. It should be a fortune cookie.

As for facebook, I don't check very often, but the one time I check, I find out that my last roommate is listed as married. Now that was freaky to see. The thing you have to ask yourself is, are your friends the people who get together and break-up through facebook or are they the people who

[clarabellemcnts]

thank you

most days i can keep that all in mind, but today was tough. it's good to hear others say these things, too.

Is the song on iTunes? where else could i go to find it?

[liriteliora]

It was a main stream song within in the last year, so I assume iTunes has it somewhere. I forget who the artist is. The title should be "Single" though.