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Aug 08, 2009 11:45

Long have I semi-abandoned this journal. Like almost everyone else, I sort of moved on to facebook where it is easier to update one liners hourly compared to paragraphs periodically. still, I do check friend's updates everyday but it stops here. Everytime I try to type, this daunting blank square field puts me off... Since, my graphic card can't ( Read more... )

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kevinexx August 8 2009, 06:21:58 UTC

there are people out there who swing both ways.. and perhaps for these friends of yours.. they seem to think that they like boys more in the past...
and perhaps with the influence from the people around them, they straight to think that they want to lead a more acceptable life and choosing the straight path might not be as difficult as you thought, cos they do get attracted to females..

cg_ August 8 2009, 07:03:31 UTC

that's the part i can't understand. swing both ways?!?!

like erm. a swing?

if they were (sexually) attracted to females in the first place means they were never gay?...

sigh maybe.. ambiguities.

natlegin August 8 2009, 08:06:26 UTC

bi.

cg_ August 8 2009, 08:09:30 UTC

my sentiments exactly!

then in the first case they shouldn't even consider themselves gay? if they've yet to form their identity?

maybe i'm being too extreme here...

sigh i guess in the end, friends are still friends (:

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d4n13l August 8 2009, 08:07:18 UTC

hmm. i think it's just a matter of preference. just as tons of pple choose to identify with liking people of the same gender, i don't think it should be any problem with the reverse happening, for whatever reason they choose to attribute it to. :)

cg_ August 8 2009, 08:31:03 UTC

choosing to like the same gender.

hmm..

k i'll just leave there.

(:

abdaziz August 8 2009, 14:53:22 UTC

Been through that with some of my very close friends. Its a phase that they are going through. They need to learn for themselves. Let them be. They will come back to their senses when they have enough self denial. Don't blame them for trying to find their path. I agree that you don't turn str8 overnight. They must have gone through some difficult moments in their life which they need to deal with.

into_the_wild August 8 2009, 15:13:00 UTC

Methinks LJ is very different from FB.

juzzywuzzy August 8 2009, 18:24:58 UTC

meKNOWS u r right. :)

kevinexx August 9 2009, 01:32:05 UTC

i have to agree on that ...

pyrosx August 8 2009, 19:28:30 UTC

i guess sexual polarity seems to lie on a continuous spectrum... some of us knows instinctively where we lie and some tend to muddle around a bit more.

these case, i'ld rather hope that it a real case of ... divine illumination, and wish them all the best at whatever path they've chosen.

Religion is too convenient an excuse in such cases, but equally convenient to level an accusation at :P ( though i know very well for myself my own definition of absurdities :P )

i maintain, if she dun give you that stirring in ur loins... no amt of hallelujah's gonna help :P